Missing Your Kids’ Moments

One of my biggest fears that would bring me to tears 10 years ago when we were separating was missing out on the precious and important moments of my kids lives. I was so sad to know they may be at their dad’s house when they came home from school with their...

The “Broken Home”

ugh – this term literally pisses me off.  How does one equate a divorced family to a “broken home?”  If a “broken home” is a home where the members of that family are not happy, dysfunctional, or worse, then I know MANY homes that are not...

ONE BIG LEAP

I have been waiting for this moment for 10 years.  I remember sitting with my now ex-husband across from our mediator finalizing the “terms” (another blog I will talk about why that is in quotes!), and he looked at us and said, “Please, promise me...